Improve Your Social Skills To Meet And Date More Girls

January 8th, 2009

How and which way to improve your social skills? - to become the ultimate social guy

Simple yet powerful - following is the 4 stage game plan to fulfill your dream of being with best chicks.

1.Communicate with Girls
2.Improving knowledge on Seduction
3.Interacting with other Guys
4.Having a life

Communicate with Girls

It’s an old saying that ‘nothing can make you perfect more than the practice’. It’s simple and logical, as nothing can come even close to actually practicing what you wish to achieve. If you wish to learn how to swim, just jump into the water.

Lot of time we see a handsome person being cool with lots of girls and we think we can’t be in their league. As we think where can we have a flashy lifestyle or the swagger to go around with. But we fail to recognize that all these people have 1000’s of dejections under their belt. It’s not that they are natural but they have perfected art by practicing it. Even after hard rejections.

Simply ask your self how many times you actually did approach girls in the last month. 2? 5? 100? Surprise, surprise, but it’s not about skill. Actually it’s about being able to take out the fear of rejection and just going along with your instinct. It’s about making it a point to meet 10 different girls a month than just being able to find one. It’s in the attitude to change with rigor and stead fastness.

Improving knowledge on Seduction

It’s not sensible to see seduction material as some chip porn. But in reality the best material takes your skills on to a whole new level. They are in fact a chronicle of others successful interaction with woman.
There is no harm in learning from others. Yet the catch lies, that if you substitute reading with actually meeting girls than it’s of no use. Don’t make your self get into a trap that let me first hone my skills and than i will try it on a girl. It’s not a substitute but rather a source to further your knowledge and help you progress more.

Specially, the good literature on seduction can go many miles. As they are written by people with better socio-cultural understanding and guy-girl relationship. It has the potential to open up newer vistas which you might have neglected otherwise. We as humans are not capable to comprehend each and everything. We do require guidance from time to time. Still it all is good as far as you are ready to turn it in to real life experience. They are there to make you better at seduction but they can not seduce someone for you.

Your own experience can only help you reach where you wish to be and these is an accessory to make you sharper, more forth coming and make you aware of your style to be natural.

First accumulate as much as you can
Second pick up what suit your personality
Third don’t get carried away, rather discard it.

It’s imperative to think that one’s personal experience is not the right for me, but at the same time it’s not always true that one thing which failed now will always be a failure for me. The point being, be open and learn as much as you can, after all practice makes one perfect.

Interacting with other Guys

Observation is a virtue we seldom forget to act upon. The easiest way to sharpening your self is to observe other guys in action. It’s not replicating, rather learning the finer points and fine tuning ones skills by being in the field. Especially if you are starting out to be a newbie, you could surely score points from watching a pro in action.

Another great advantage of interacting is sharing, not the inner details, but seeking finner aspect of the whole approach to womans. It’s even great in bringing ones strengths and weaknesses to fore. As healthy interaction among guys makes one self aware. It’s a two way approach where you acquire newer knowledge by going trough literature and than hone it up openly discussing with your buddies. The idea is to bring the best out of you and can only happen if you open yourself and are ready to experiment.

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Sluts and Studs: Are Sexual Beliefs Around Promiscuity A Double Standard?

January 8th, 2009

Lots of girls, rather most of them whom i have come across over years have one big concern as to why there are double standards in society? When a guy sleeps around and brags, it’s okay, but when a girl do such a thing she is looked down upon. Mostly it’s been unsatisfactory to answer such question, but in recent times i think i have a concrete understanding.

Lets see it in a way of a challenge. If i am sitting with a beautiful girl and we both lend up having a challenge, where the idea is to get laid as many times as possible, be it night or day. So the challenge is set and we get going. Let’s examine it both ways.

The girl goes out and meets some random guys and starts up a conversation. After initial chit chat, after a while she suggest, ’she would love if he is willing to come over to her place’. May be there is hesitation and she would go to the length that she might find someone else. It’s highly unlikely that that person, except being gay or very religious, would even think twice to such a situation. It would be practically no time before she gets her first pray.

On my part, i see the first girl and try to have a conversation. First we get to know each other and even i become direct, considering the time frame, to suggest her to come over to my place as i wish to make it a special treat. The chances are very slim, and even if she tags along, it’s tough to just get down to business with her. So i try a new approach, as may be attractive girls would not come along for such fling, how about trying not so good looking girls. Yet again i realize, they are not an easy pray either. Then i realize may be day time would require lot more efforts, i should try night time and try to seek out girls with high sex libido. Yet again, 98% time i find some or the other kind of resistance form girls.

The reality, it’s invariably difficult for a guy to get laid from a girl to find a man to have sex. How ever i feel for me to have years of experience, even knowing woman psychology and their sexual desires. I am still not in a position to achieve better results than the girl with whom i place the bet.
Well, after this experiment lets get back to our original inquiry. Let’s see a guy who have slept with may be 100 women. Which are high profile woman or even beautiful models. When a new girl meets him and sees his profile, she realizes that person has indeed been successful in seducing so many varied woman. So must posses some really interesting qualities like humorous, alphaness, intelligence. Sure he must be tender and caring and most important will be that he knows what he is doing. A class apart from every joe on the street. So a challenge for the girl herself.

Now when we examine the girl, it would seem that most guys would any way sleep with her. So most likely it’s a situation where she is presented on a plate and most guys with out giving a consideration would sleep with her. Most possible case would be that she is not all that attractive and could be seduced by any and every joe on the street. Thus the situation and it’s implication says that the girl seems not to be of high standings but the guy has a taste and knows where his bearings lie.

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Dating Hot Girls: Men Don’t Be Intimidated By Beautiful Women

January 8th, 2009

As it’s said ‘beauty lies in the eyes of beholder’, yet when it comes to feminine beauty, we all have our eyes sat on such exquisite, irresistible sense – completely overwhelming us, the moment we see it, even she could be miles away, i though, a glance, just a sense of her perfume and here we are ready go down our knees just to relive that moment…is it moment or is it a beautiful reality lasting eternity…..

And yet there is hesitation, there is not being there feeling…the reason seems simple yet illusive. Cause are we, as man ready to accept it..As for the real woman of our dreams, it’s the real man that she is searching for, not our fantasy filled imagination.

Get Real

It’s been said time and again and we all have heard it, that success comes to one, who has the patient to wait it out. Well, if one is not born to feel being at home with woman, it’s an art on e has to aquire over time with dedication and patient. It’s the way, may be hard but a filled with sure success. Here it’s not intended to deject you, but rather take you on the right way forward.

To begin with, the way to a woman’s heart starts not by indulging into foolishness but by really understanding where your mind lies. It’s the inner journey of man, which takes him to the door of woman’s heart. Just being oneself is the key.

Believe in Yourself

More often then ever, in case of approaching we are asking the wrong question. As in my personal experience, people ask me how should i approach her? Or what must i say when i meet her? It’s like trying find a quick fix to a problem of a heavy smoker. The fact is, there is something else altogether one needs to do before even thinking of such questions.

Your journey starts with rather asking yourself, ‘what kind of person should i be?’

Though we all somewhere think that woman would fall in love if we just be what we are. Yet when it comes to interacting, we absolutely travel in the opposite direction. And lend up doing something so stupid, that chances are, she would just neglect us all together. Don’t be surprised, but it’s a fact with 90% of us. In such situation of utter stupidity i hope you do lend up getting the luck of whole universe!! Well it’s not possible though.

Rather i would suggest that be the one you are, take out inhibitions, and improve upon what qualities already you have. You would be neglecting the real fact if you act otherwise. As woman have a strong sense of sensing someone acting other than what he should be. Plain faking it. Rather think of as a person who you really are and be joyful in truly your sense. Advice being, sharpen your skills and interact with attractive woman with self confidence. Just simply do not worry how good or bad looking you are. It’s mere thing, but when you are what you are at your best, the woman of your dream will notice you.

Clarity of Intention

The matter is, can you think the way an attractive woman thinks. Trying to be in her shoe. If you do, you will realize that a beautiful woman are constantly been hit upon. In such situation, wouldn’t it become routine and mundane. Even though it might lift your ego now and then, yet it’s still an every day phenomenon.

So think otherwise, what an attractive woman want, not the every day routine of being hit by smart-asses. Getting SICK and TIRED by them time and again, but a genuine concern, a conversation on equal footing, an original persona who can make her head turn. And bingo, you are in her inner circle. What you needed to be original and sympathetic, not some scum.

Just make your presence felt. Be confident, be innovative and be reasonable. It’s all possible, if you boost your being and be open to knowing new things. Approach woman with newer ways which project your being interesting and simply away from the crowd.

Be Proactive

Last stage in being a winner with a beautiful woman is for you to judge her gestures, as to how and when to make advances. To put it in perspective, there are 8 stages of Interaction with a woman. Which in detail lay out successful way to a make advances and their transitions to reach the maximum impact. It’s like you could get her number, are you in a position to go on a date with her? That’s possible, just give these 8 stages a try when next time you meet a woman of your desire.

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Making Friends With Women Helps You Get More Dates With Girls

January 3rd, 2009

Being friends with women is about treating them exactly how you treat your guy friends. Women know you are not their girlfriends. When you act like you are their girlfriend, they interpret it as an unconvincing pretense used to get into their pants.
To reiterate: Being friends with women is about acting the way you would around your guy friends.
Let’s discuss the reasons for making friends with women.

Reason # 1: You Will Be More Comfortable Around Women In General:
Men who don’t have female friends are usually nervous and uncomfortable around women, causing women to feel uncomfortable around them. When a woman picks this sort of man up by the proverbial scruff of his neck, and mercilessly tears him apart, like a cheaply wrought rag doll, he becomes nervous and uncomfortable in his own skin. This results in her becoming nervous and uncomfortable.
Trying to make women feel comfortable around you when you are uncomfortable in your own skin is usually a losing battle - and often times leads to them feeling even more uncomfortable.
The biggest part of making women feel comfortable is being comfortable in your own skin and around women. The quickest road I know to becoming comfortable in your own skin and around women is to make female friends.

Reason # 2: You Will No Longer Need An Endless Supply Of Pick Up Lines And Memorized Material To Be Successful With Women:
I know some guys who are amazing at approaching women and initially getting women attracted to them but as soon as they run out of rehearsed material, things take a floundering turn for the awkward as they buckle completely. One common scenario is that a guy will meet a woman and succeed in generating the emotion inside her of wanting, chasing, and reaching for more of him through using memorized material. She willingly gives him her number.
When he calls it like talking to a complete total stranger and the emotion of her feeling attraction towards him is long gone. Since he doesn’t know what to do outside the realm of using memorized material, she treats him like a random telemarketer trying to solicit her, cutting the phone call abnormally short and hanging up. The problem is that this guy neither understands women nor knows how to act around them. One of the best ways for developing these skills is by being friends with women - especially the type you strive to succeed with. Once you have taken the time to implement the skills you learned from my book in the real world and have made a few female friends, you’ll start to notice something cool happening in your interactions with women:  I’m not against using memorized material - in fact, I’m a fan of it. But if you can only interact with women using memorized material, you are in big trouble.

Reason # 3: Women Know When A Man Is Not Frequently Around Other Women:
Women are clairvoyant when comes to knowing whether or not a man is frequently around women. Women assume that if other females hang around you, then you must be a cool guy. They assume, likewise, that if no females hang around you, something might be wrong with you - bad thing! This is pretty much herd mentality - go figure!
One of the big problems with a lot of the material on how to attract women is that it only focuses on making you feel more confident about yourself. As, alas, you might know, you can do all the affirmations in the world, but if you don’t have the social skills to attract women, your out of luck.
Another blunder guys make when learning how to attract women is only memorizing material to say to women. Only memorizing material without understanding why you are doing it is a makeshift solution to attracting and succeeding with women. By just memorizing a few pick up lines, you’re cheating yourself out of really learning how to attract women.

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Dating Tips: Meeting Girls

January 2nd, 2009

What are the best pick-up lines to use?

There are no good pick-up lines. There are other techniques such as asking for someone’s opinion or storytelling to start an interaction. There are direct and indirect techniques to approaching, which can be demonstrated during a live workshop session.

Is it a good idea to approach a woman and offer to buy her a drink?

No. Some woman goes out with the intention of having guys buying them drinks so they don’t have to. Why would a social guy, with many options, spend his money on someone he doesn’t even know? Is he so socially inept that he needs to buy her drinks as payment for her company? She may also subconsciously question his agenda.

Should I wait for a woman until she is alone before I approach her?

No. Women almost never goes out to a bar or a club alone. You need to convey a non-threatening and positive energy when you interact with a group of people. During a live workshop, we go out to bars and clubs and demonstrate how to successfully interact with groups of people, including men and women.

Do looks matter to women?

Woman think it does but time over time we have seen and experienced that well groomed men, approaching women in a non threatening way can build attraction using the techniques that we teach and practice. A survey revealed that the number one criteria that woman look for in men is a sense of humour, not looks.

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