How and which way to improve your social skills? - to become the ultimate social guy
Simple yet powerful - following is the 4 stage game plan to fulfill your dream of being with best chicks.
1.Communicate with Girls
2.Improving knowledge on Seduction
3.Interacting with other Guys
4.Having a life
Communicate with Girls
It’s an old saying that ‘nothing can make you perfect more than the practice’. It’s simple and logical, as nothing can come even close to actually practicing what you wish to achieve. If you wish to learn how to swim, just jump into the water.
Lot of time we see a handsome person being cool with lots of girls and we think we can’t be in their league. As we think where can we have a flashy lifestyle or the swagger to go around with. But we fail to recognize that all these people have 1000’s of dejections under their belt. It’s not that they are natural but they have perfected art by practicing it. Even after hard rejections.
Simply ask your self how many times you actually did approach girls in the last month. 2? 5? 100? Surprise, surprise, but it’s not about skill. Actually it’s about being able to take out the fear of rejection and just going along with your instinct. It’s about making it a point to meet 10 different girls a month than just being able to find one. It’s in the attitude to change with rigor and stead fastness.
Improving knowledge on Seduction
It’s not sensible to see seduction material as some chip porn. But in reality the best material takes your skills on to a whole new level. They are in fact a chronicle of others successful interaction with woman.
There is no harm in learning from others. Yet the catch lies, that if you substitute reading with actually meeting girls than it’s of no use. Don’t make your self get into a trap that let me first hone my skills and than i will try it on a girl. It’s not a substitute but rather a source to further your knowledge and help you progress more.
Specially, the good literature on seduction can go many miles. As they are written by people with better socio-cultural understanding and guy-girl relationship. It has the potential to open up newer vistas which you might have neglected otherwise. We as humans are not capable to comprehend each and everything. We do require guidance from time to time. Still it all is good as far as you are ready to turn it in to real life experience. They are there to make you better at seduction but they can not seduce someone for you.
Your own experience can only help you reach where you wish to be and these is an accessory to make you sharper, more forth coming and make you aware of your style to be natural.
First accumulate as much as you can
Second pick up what suit your personality
Third don’t get carried away, rather discard it.
It’s imperative to think that one’s personal experience is not the right for me, but at the same time it’s not always true that one thing which failed now will always be a failure for me. The point being, be open and learn as much as you can, after all practice makes one perfect.
Interacting with other Guys
Observation is a virtue we seldom forget to act upon. The easiest way to sharpening your self is to observe other guys in action. It’s not replicating, rather learning the finer points and fine tuning ones skills by being in the field. Especially if you are starting out to be a newbie, you could surely score points from watching a pro in action.
Another great advantage of interacting is sharing, not the inner details, but seeking finner aspect of the whole approach to womans. It’s even great in bringing ones strengths and weaknesses to fore. As healthy interaction among guys makes one self aware. It’s a two way approach where you acquire newer knowledge by going trough literature and than hone it up openly discussing with your buddies. The idea is to bring the best out of you and can only happen if you open yourself and are ready to experiment.