Lots of girls, rather most of them whom i have come across over years have one big concern as to why there are double standards in society? When a guy sleeps around and brags, it’s okay, but when a girl do such a thing she is looked down upon. Mostly it’s been unsatisfactory to answer such question, but in recent times i think i have a concrete understanding.
Lets see it in a way of a challenge. If i am sitting with a beautiful girl and we both lend up having a challenge, where the idea is to get laid as many times as possible, be it night or day. So the challenge is set and we get going. Let’s examine it both ways.
The girl goes out and meets some random guys and starts up a conversation. After initial chit chat, after a while she suggest, ’she would love if he is willing to come over to her place’. May be there is hesitation and she would go to the length that she might find someone else. It’s highly unlikely that that person, except being gay or very religious, would even think twice to such a situation. It would be practically no time before she gets her first pray.
On my part, i see the first girl and try to have a conversation. First we get to know each other and even i become direct, considering the time frame, to suggest her to come over to my place as i wish to make it a special treat. The chances are very slim, and even if she tags along, it’s tough to just get down to business with her. So i try a new approach, as may be attractive girls would not come along for such fling, how about trying not so good looking girls. Yet again i realize, they are not an easy pray either. Then i realize may be day time would require lot more efforts, i should try night time and try to seek out girls with high sex libido. Yet again, 98% time i find some or the other kind of resistance form girls.
The reality, it’s invariably difficult for a guy to get laid from a girl to find a man to have sex. How ever i feel for me to have years of experience, even knowing woman psychology and their sexual desires. I am still not in a position to achieve better results than the girl with whom i place the bet.
Well, after this experiment lets get back to our original inquiry. Let’s see a guy who have slept with may be 100 women. Which are high profile woman or even beautiful models. When a new girl meets him and sees his profile, she realizes that person has indeed been successful in seducing so many varied woman. So must posses some really interesting qualities like humorous, alphaness, intelligence. Sure he must be tender and caring and most important will be that he knows what he is doing. A class apart from every joe on the street. So a challenge for the girl herself.
Now when we examine the girl, it would seem that most guys would any way sleep with her. So most likely it’s a situation where she is presented on a plate and most guys with out giving a consideration would sleep with her. Most possible case would be that she is not all that attractive and could be seduced by any and every joe on the street. Thus the situation and it’s implication says that the girl seems not to be of high standings but the guy has a taste and knows where his bearings lie.